[Context: how on earth will I progress/proceed, if I live in the fear of making mistakes? in any context, be at work, home, love, investment, purchase, in anything, cannot let fear of making mistakes to dictate me]

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear trying new things because I fear making mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear making mistakes and then seen as stupid by others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear trying new ideas, new concepts, new techniques, because in the fear of making mistakes, and in this I forgive me for been seen as dump and stupid.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear experimenting new things within the fear of making mistakes.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that if I were to make mistakes then I may lose all respect and appreciation, and I fear been blamed and scolded. in this I forgive myself for not realizing my starting point to do anything is appreciation, recognition and been liked by others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself limit myself, not realizing it is my responsibility to learn, and put in the effort to acquire the required information so that I can try, experiment new things. I see/realize and understand, self-application is required consistently to develop the know-how so that I can proceed in accumulating the know-how, in that making fewer mistakes. I see/realize/understand, in the process of learning any new skill or in trying a new technique, mistakes are bound to happen. in this I forgive me for been petrified by the fear of making mistakes, as if my whole world will collapse. I see/realize/understand, it is really my fear of how I will be seen/perceived by others if I were to make mistakes, is the root issue.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear making mistakes because I fear the perception others have of me, so in making mistakes I fear been seen as stupid and dumb.

i forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to be seen as smart and cool, in this I forgive me for desiring the approval and validation by others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to LIVE my life because I want to be validated and approved by others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize, my whole existence is about been liked/validated/approved by others. in this I forgive me for not doing anything just for myself, as an expression of myself without ever needing/desiring approval/validation from others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize, that I fear making mistakes only in the presence of others, in their absence, the concept of mistakes doesn’t even exist.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear humans and their god damn opinions about me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize, I want humans to like me, approve me and validate me, as if the others are the GODs of my existence.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear the opinions others have of me, and always want to make sure they have the best opinion about me.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear been disliked by others, therefore constantly doing things to please them and be approved by others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize, my lack of self-presence within my body as awareness of my breath, is the root problem, because of that my mind is wandering about what others think of me. Who give a FUCK about what others think of me.  Within common sense, I direct myself to breathe here, and apply myself to try new things, experiment new things to expand and grow in my process of learning and living my life. I stop limiting myself because of the fear of making mistakes, basically the fearing how others will perceive me when I do make mistakes.

When and as I see myself fearing and limiting myself through the fear of making mistakes, I STOP, I breathe. I see/realize/understand, I am just letting old patterns of what “others think of me” to direct me. I STOP. I direct me to try, experiment new things, in this I realize/see, mistakes will happen, but I will not let that limit me or stop me, I will direct myself to try and experiment new things within the bounds of common sense.

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